Monday, January 31, 2005

Best Breakup Songs To Help You Move On And Let Go!

1000 Times Goodbye - Megadeth

50 Ways To Leave Your Lover - Paul Simon

A Little Time - The Beautiful South

After I Bury You in the Backyard - Jennifer Contreras

Almost Doesn't Count - Brandy

A New Day Has Come - Celine Dion

Angry All The Time - Tim McGraw

Angry Johnny - Poe

Believe - Cher

Better Man, Better Off - Tracy Lawrence

Better Things To Do - Terri Clark

Big Deal - LeAnn Rimes

Big Mistake - Natalie Imbruglia

Blame It On Your Heart - Patty Loveless

Break Stuff - Limp Bizkit

Butterfly - Mariah Carey

Bye Bye - JoDee Messina

Bye, Bye, Bye - N Sync'

Caught Out There - Kelis

Crop Tub - A.F.I.

Cryin' For Nothing - Gary Allan

Did I Do That? - Mariah Carey

Didn't Know My Own Strength - Lorrie Morgan

Doin' Just Fine - Boyz II Men

Don't Come Around Here No More - Tom Petty And The Heartbreakers

Don't Go Away Mad (Just Go Away) - Motley Crue

Don't Shed a Tear - Paul Carrack

Don't Want You Back - Backstreet Boys

Down To My Last Teardrop - Tanya Tucker

(I Hate) Everything About You - Ugly Kid Joe

F.O.D. (Fuck Off and Die) - Green Day

Forget About Us - Tim McGraw

F*ck Me! - Osker

Give Me One Reason - Tracy Chapman

Goodbye - Save Ferris

Goodbye Earl - Dixie Chicks

Goodbye My Love - Juice

Goodbye to You - Michelle Branch

Good Riddance (Time Of Your Life) - Green Day

Here's A Quarter - Travis Tritt

He Wasn't Man Enough For Me - Toni Braxton

Hit 'Em Up Style (Oops!) - Blu Cantrell

Hit The Road Jack - Ray Charles

Hold On - Wilson Phillips

How Do You Like Me Now?! - Toby Keith

Hunter - Dido

I Can't Do That Anymore - Faith Hill

I Don't Care Anymore - Phil Collins /Genesis

I Don't Want You Back - Backstreet Boys

I Learned From The Best - Whitney Houston

I'm Alive - Heather Nova

I'm Gonna Make You Miss Me - 3LW

I'm Moving On - Rascal Flatts

I Never Loved You Anyway - The Corrs

I Refuse - Aaliyah

I Think God Can Explain - Splendor

It's Over Now - Deborah Cox

It's Too Late - Carole King

It's All Over Now - Rolling Stones

Kissing You Goodbye - Waylon Jennings

Kiss This - Aaron Tippin

Land Of The Living - Pam Tillis

Last Goodbye - The Gufs

Leave - Matchbox 20

Lesson in Leaving - JoDee Messina

Limp - Fiona Apple

Little Goodbyes - SheDaisy

Lonely - Britney Spears

Look At Me Now - Reveille

March of the Pigs - Nine Inch Nails

Me Neither - Brad Paisley

My Way - Limp Bizkit

No More Tears - Barbra Streisand & Donna Summer

Now You See Me, Now You Don't - Lee Ann Womack

One Last Cry - Brian McKnight

One Way Ticket (Because I Can) - LeAnn Rimes

Red Letter Day - The Get Up Kids

Rocks Tonic Juice Magic - Saves the Day

Searching My Soul - Vonda Shepard

See Ya - Atomic Kitten

She Thinks I Still Care - George Jones

Sin Wagon - Dixie Chicks

Someday - Mariah Carey

Someone Else's Turn To Cry - Chalee Tennison

Song for the Dumped - Ben Folds Five

Special - Garbage

Speedway - Counting Crows

Strong Enough - Cher

Stronger - Britney Spears

Survivor - Destiny's Child

The Hardest Thing - 98 Degrees

The Last Goodbye - Jeff Buckley

There You Go - Pink

The River - Garth Brooks

The Sign - Ace Of Base

This Is Me Leaving You - Mary Chapin Carpenter

Time For Me To Fly - Reo Speedwagon

Two Pina Coladas - Garth Brooks

Tyrone - Eryka Badu

Used to Love Her (But I Had to Kill Her) - Guns n' Roses

Whatever - Jessica Andrews

When I Get My Hands On You - Jennifer Contrera

When the Heartache is Over - Tina Turner

Wherever You Are - The Moody Blues

Who's That Girl - Stephanie Bentley

Wish Me Well (Go to Hell) - Bouncing Souls

You're So Vain - Carly Simon

You’ve Made Me Stronger - Regine Velasquez

Best Breakup Songs Lines And Lyrics

Erykah Badu

"Tyrone"


"I think you'd better call Tyrone
And tell him come on help you get your sh--
You need to call Tyrone Hold on
But you can't use my phone."

Ben Folds Five

"Song for the Dumped"


"Give me my money back, you bitch
I want my money back
And don't forget to give me back my black T-shirt."

Alanis Morissette

"You Oughta Know"


"It was a slap in the face how quickly I was replaced
Are you thinking of me when you f--- her?"

Fiona Apple

"Limp"


"It won't be long till you'll be
Lying limp in your own hand."

Mary J. Blige

"Not Gon' Cry"


"Eleven years out of my life
Besides the kids I have nothing to show
Wasted my years - a fool of a wife
I should have left your ass long time ago."

U2

"One"


"You gave me nothing
Now it's all I got."

Hank Thompson

"The Wild Side of Life"


"I didn't know God made honky-tonk angels
I might have known you'd never make a wife."

Kitty Wells

"It Wasn't God Who Made Honky-Tonk Angels"


"From the start most every heart that was broken
Was because there always was a man to blame."

The Byrds

"I'll Feel a Whole Lot Better"


"After what you did I can't stay on
And I'll probably feel a whole lot better when you're gone."

The Police

"Can't Stand Losing You"


"I guess this is our last goodbye
And you don't care so I won't cry
But you'll be sorry when I'm dead
And all this guilt will be on your head."

Tonio K.

"H-A-T-R-E-D"


"I wish I was as mellow as, for instance, Jackson Browne
But 'Fountain of Sorrow' my ass, motherf---er, I hope you end up in the ground."

Travis Tritt

"Here's a Quarter, Call Someone Who Cares"


"Don't you come 'round here handin' me none of your lies
Here's a quarter, call someone who cares."

Gloria Gaynor

"I Will Survive"


"I would've changed that stupid lock
I would've made you leave your key
If I'd have known for just one second you'd be back to bother me."

Ani DiFranco

"Untouchable Face"


"So f--- you and your untouchable face
F--- you for existing in the first place."

Bonnie Raitt

"I Can't Make You Love Me"

"Morning will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight"

'N SYNC

"Bye Bye Bye"


"I loved you endlessly
And you weren't there for me
So now it's time to leave and make
It alone
I know that I can't take no more
It ain't no lie
I wanna see you out that door
Baby bye bye bye"

ABC

"Valentine's Day"


"If you gave me a pound for the moments I missed
And I got dancing lessons for all the lips I shoulda kissed
I'd be a millionaire
I'd be a Fred Astaire"

Classics IV

"Love Me or Leave Me Alone"


"If this is just another ride you're taking me on,
Then leave me alone
I'm not your part-time man
Love is more than now and then"

Soft Cell

"Tainted Love"


"Once I ran to you (I ran) Now I'll run from you
This tainted love you've given
I give you all a boy could give you
Take my tears and that's not livin'
Oh...tainted love Tainted love"

Scandal

"Goodbye To You"


"Those times I waited for you seem so long ago
I wanted you far too much to ever let you go
You know you never got by "I feel it too"
And I guess I never could stand to lose It's such a pity to say"

Quarterflash

"Harden My Heart"


"Cryin' on the corner, waitin' in the rain
I swear I'll never, ever wait again
You gave me your word, but words for you are lies
Goodbye to you"

The Eagles

"Already Gone"


"Well I know it wasn't you who held me down
Heaven knows it wasn't you who set me free
So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains
And we never even know we have the key"

Bob Dylan

"Don't Think Twice, It's All Right"


"I ain't sayin' you treated me unkind
You could have done better but I don't mind
You just kinda wasted my precious time
But don't think twice, it's all right"

Green Day

"Good Riddance"


"It's not a question
But a lesson learned in time
It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life"

Madonna

"You'll See"


"You think that you are strong, but you are weak
You'll see,
It takes more strength to
Cry, admit defeat.
I have truth on my side,
You only have deceit"

Matchbox 20

"If You're Gone"


"I think you're already gone
I think I'm finally scared now
You think I'm weak - But I think you're wrong
I think you're already leaving
Feels like your hand is on the door
I thought this place was an empire
But now I'm relaxed - I can't be sure"

Phil Collins

"One More Night"


"I know there'll never be a time you'll ever feel the same
And I know it's only words
But if you change your mind, you know that I'll be here
And maybe we both can learn"

LeAnn Rimes

"How do I Live Without You"


"How do I live without you, I want to know
How do I breathe without you, if you ever go
How do I ever, ever survive
How do I, how do I, oh how do I live"

Chicago

"If you Leave Me Now"


"If you leave me now, you take away the biggest part of me.
Ooo oh, baby please don't go.
If you leave me now, you'll take away the very heart of me.
Ooo oh, baby please don't go."

Orchestral Maneuvers in the Dark

"If You Leave"


"If you leave, don't leave now
Please don't take my heart away
Promise me just one more night
Then we'll go our separate ways"

Styx

"Don't Let It End"


"What will I do
If you say we're through
I need you to stay, honey
Don't let it end this way."

Bonnie Tyler

"Total Eclipse of the Heart"


"I don't know what to do and I'm always in the dark.
We're living in a powder keg and giving off sparks.
I really need you tonight, forever's gonna start tonight, forever's gonna start tonight."

David Soul

"Don't Give Up On Us"


"Don't give up on us, baby
We're still worth one more try
I know we put a last one by
Just for a rainy evening"

XTC

"I Can't Own Her"


"Of all the things you've got
The thing you want the most
Is there, and she's the one thing that you just can't have"

Cher

"If I Could Turn Back Time"


"If I could turn back time
If I could find a way
I'd take back those words that have hurt you
And you'd stay"

Patti Labelle

"On My Own"


"This wasn't how it was supposed to end
I wish that we could do it all again
I never dreamed I'd spend one night alone"

Marrillion

"Kayleigh"


"Kayleigh, is it too late to say I'm sorry
And Kayleigh, could we get it together again
I just can't go on pretending that it came to a natural end
Kayleigh, oh I never thought I'd miss you
And Kayleigh, I thought that we'd always be friends
We said our love would last forever so how did it come to this bitter end"

My Dear Friend

My dear friend
Never lose hope
When the Beloved
Sends you away.

If you're abandoned
If you're left hopeless
Tomorrow for sure
You'll be called again.

If the door is shut
Right in your face
Keep waiting with patience
Don't leave right away.

Seeing your patience
Your love will soon
Summon you with grace
Raise you like a champion.

And if all the roads
End up in dead ends
You'll be shown the secret paths
No one will comprehend.

The beloved I know
Will give with no qualms
To a puny ant
The kingdom of Solomon.

My heart has journeyed
Many times around the world
But has never found
And will never find
Such a Beloved again.

Ah I better keep silence
I know this endless love
Will surely arrive
For you and you and you.

By Rumi

Sunday, January 30, 2005

Wisdom Of Mahatma Gandhi

Woman is the companion of man, gifted with equal mental capacities. She has the right to participate in the minutest details in the activities of man, and she has an equal right of freedom and liberty with him.

Hatred ever kills, love never dies such is the vast difference between the two. What is obtained by love is retained for all time. What is obtained by hatred proves a burden in reality for it increases hatred.

Fear of death makes us devoid both of valour and religion. For want of valour is want of religious faith.

There are times when you have to obey a call which is the highest of all, i.e. the voice of conscience even though such obedience may cost many a bitter tear, and even more, separation from friends, from family, from the state to which you may belong, from all that you have held as dear as life itself. For this obedience is the law of our being.

Insistence on truth can come into play when one party practises untruth or injustice. Only then can love be tested. True friendship is put to the test only when one party disregards the obligation of friendship.

The test of friendship is assistance in adversity, and that too, unconditional assistance. Co-operation which needs consideration is a commercial contract and not friendship. Conditional co-operation is like adulterated cement which does not bind.

It may be long before the law of love will be recognised in international affairs. The machineries of government stand between and hide the hearts of one people from those of another.

A vow is a purely religious act which cannot be taken in a fit of passion. It can be taken only with a mind purified and composed and with God as witness.

Religion is a matter of the heart. No physical inconvenience can warrant abandonment of one's own religion.

Non-cooperation is an attempt to awaken the masses, to a sense of their dignity and power. This can only be done by enabling them to realize that they need not fear brute force, if they would but know the soul within.

Whenever I see an erring man, I say to myself I have also erred; when I see a lustful man I say to myself, so was I once; and in this way I feel kinship with everyone in the world and feel that I cannot be happy without the humblest of us being happy.

To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that the one that must be loved is not a friend. There is no merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.

The moment there is suspicion about a person's motives, everything he does becomes tainted.

Are creeds such simple things like the clothes which a man can change at will and put on at will? Creeds are such for which people live for ages and ages.

I have but shadowed forth my intense longing to lose myself in the Eternal and become merely a lump of clay in the Potter's divine hands so that my service may become more certain because uninterrupted by the baser self in me.

An error does not become truth by reason of multiplied propagation, nor does truth become error because nobody will see it.

Suffering cheerfully endured, ceases to be suffering and is transmuted into an ineffable joy.

As soon as we lose the moral basis, we cease to be religious. There is no such thing as religion over-riding morality. Man, for instance,cannot be untruthful, cruel or incontinent and claim to have God on his side.

Even as wisdom often comes from the mouths of babes, so does it often come from the mouths of old people. The golden rule is to test everything in the light of reason and experience, no matter from where it comes.

You must be the change you wish to see in the world.

Non-cooperation is directed not against men but against measures. It is not directed against the Governors, but against the system they administer. The roots of non-cooperation lie not in hatred but in justice, if not in love.

I do not want my house to be walled in on all sides and my windows to be stuffed. I want the cultures of all the lands to be blown about my house as freely as possible. But I refuse to be blown off my feet by any. I refuse to live in other people's houses as an interloper, a beggar or a slave.

Measures must always in a progressive society be held superior to men, who are after all imperfect instruments, working for their fulfilment.

I will far rather see the race of man extinct than that we should become less than beasts by making the noblest of God's creation, woman, the object of our lust.

The spirit of non-violence necessarily leads to humility. Non-violence means reliance on God, the rock of ages. If we would seek his aid, we must approach Him with a humble and contrite heart.

Abstract truth has no value unless it incarnates in human beings who represent it, by proving their readiness to die for it.

There is a higher court than courts of justice and that is the court of conscience. It supercedes all other courts.

Non-cooperation is beyond the reach of the bayonet. It has found an abiding place in the Indian heart. Workers like me will go when the hour has struck, but non-cooperation will remain.

Intolerance is itself a form of violence and an obstacle to the growth of a true democratic spirit.

This campaign of non-cooperation has no reference to diplomacy, secret or open. The only diplomacy it admits of is the statement and pursuance of truth at any cost.

God is, even though the whole world deny him. Truth stands, even if there be no public support. It is self-sustained.

I claim that human mind or human society is not divided into watertight compartments called social, political and religious. All act and react upon one another.

The only virtue I want to claim is truth and non-violence. I lay no claim to superhuman powers. I want none. I wear the same corruptible flesh that the weakest of my fellow beings wears, and am therefore as liable to err as any. My services have many limitations, but God has upto now blessed them in spite of the imperfections.

The human voice can never reach the distance that is covered by the still small voice of conscience.

If we want to cultivate a true spirit of democracy we cannot afford to be intolerant. Intolerance betrays want of faith in one's cause.

When I admire the wonders of a sunset or the beauty of the moon, my soul expands in the worship of the creator.

Violent means will give violent freedom. That would be a menace to the world and to India herself.

Religion is more than life. Remember that his own religion is the truest to every man even if it stands low in the scales of philosophical comparison.

In nature there is fundamental unity running through all the diversity we see about us. Religions are given to mankind so as to accelerate the process of realisation of fundamental unity.

However much I may sympathise with and admire worthy motives, I am an uncompromising opponent of violent methods even to serve the noblest of causes.

Birth and death are not two different states, but they are different aspects of the same state. There is as little reason to deplore the one as there is to be pleased over the other.

For me every ruler is alien that defies public opinion.

Experience convinces me that permanent good can never be the outcome of untruth & violence. Even if my belief is a fond delusion, it will be admitted that it is a fascinating delusion.

I do not want to foresee the future. I am concerned with taking care of the present. God has given me no control over the moment following.

Indeed one's faith in one's plans and methods is truly tested when the horizon before one is the blackest.

It is my own firm belief that the strength of the soul grows in proportion as you subdue the flesh.

My trust is solely in god. And I trust men only because I trust God. If I had no God to rely upon, I should be like Timon, a hater of my species.

One's own religion is after all a matter between oneself and one's Maker and no one else's.

My religion is based on truth and non-violence. Truth is my God. Non-violence is the means of realising Him.

It is any day better to stand erect with a broken and bandaged head then to crawl on one's belly, in order to be able to save one's head.

Better far than cowardice is killing and being killed in battle.

Imitation is the sincerest flattery.

Let no one charge me with ever having abused or encouraged weakness or surrendered on matters of principle. But I have said, as I say again, that every trifle must not be dignified into a principle.

Violent men have not been known in history to die to a man. They die up to a point.

Justice that love gives is a surrender, justice that law gives is a punishment.

I am but a poor struggling soul yearning to be wholly good, wholly truthful and wholly non-violent in thought, word and deed, but ever failing to reach the ideal which I know to be true. It is a painful climb, but the pain of it is a positive pleasure to me. Each step upwards makes me feel stronger and fit for the next.

Moral authority is never retained by any attempt to hold on to it. It comes without seeking and is retained without effort.

Self-respect knows no considerations.

Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment.

A religion that takes no account of practical affairs and does not help to solve them is no religion.

There is no principle worth the name if it is not wholly good.

No sacrifice is worth the name unless it is a joy. Sacrifice and a long face go ill together. Sacrifice is 'making sacred'. He must be a poor specimen of humanity who is in need of sympathy for his sacrifice.

That service is the nobelest which is rendered for its own sake.

Every formula of every religion has in this age of reason, to submit to the acid test of reason and universal assent.

God tries his votaries through and through but never beyond endurance. He gives them strength enough to go through the ordeal he prescribes for them.

Love never claims, it ever gives. Love ever suffers, never resents never revenges itself.

I claim to be a simple individual liable to err like any other fellow mortal. I own, however, that I have humility enough to confess my errors and to retrace my steps.

Truth is by nature self-evident, as soon as you remove the cobwebs of ignorance that surround it, it shines clear.

Adaptability is not imitation. It means power of resistance and assimilation.

Man has reason, discrimination and free-will such as it is. The brute has no such thing. It is not a free agent, and knows no distinction between virtue and vice, good and evil. Man, being a free agent, knows these distinctions, and when he follows his higher nature, shows himself far superior to the brute, but when he follows his baser nature can show himself lower then the brute.

Anger is the enemy of Ahimsa(Non-violence) and pride is a monster that swallows it up.

A principle is the expression of perfection, and as imperfect beings like us cannot practise perfection, we devise every moment limits of its compromise in practice.

It is easy enough to say, 'I do not believe in God.' For God permits all things to be said of Him with impunity. He looks at our acts. And any breach of His Law carries with it not its vindictive, but its purifying, compelling punishment.

He who trifles with truth cuts at the root of Ahimsa. He who is angry is guilty of Himsa.

Human society is a ceaseless growth, an unfoldment in terms of spirituality.

If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm.

Though we may know Him by a thousand names, He is one and the same to us all.

I have found by experience that man makes his plans to be often upset by God, but, at the same time, where the ultimate goal is the search of truth, no matter how a man's plans are frustrated the issue is never injurious and often better then anticipated.

A 'no' uttered from deepest conviction is better and greater than a 'yes' merely uttered to please, or what is worse, to avoid trouble.

Friendship that insists upon agreement on all matters is notworth the name. Friendship to be real must ever sustain the weight of honest differences, however sharp they be.

A clean confession, combined with a promise never to commit thesin again, when offered before one who has the right to receiveit, is the purest type of repentance.

Purity of personal life is the one indispensable condition for building up a sound education.

Perfection is the exclusive attribute of God, and it is indescribable, untranslatable. I do believe that it is possible for human beings to become perfect. It is necessary for all of us to aspire after that perfection but when that blessed state is attained, it becomes indescribable, indefinable.

What is true of the individual will be to-morrow true of the whole nation if individuals will but refuse to lose heart and hope.

Service which is rendered without joy helps neither the servant nor the served. But all other pleasures and possessions pale into nothingness before service which is rendered in a spirit of joy.

It has always been a mystery to me how men can feel themselves honoured by the humiliation of their fellow beings.

The spirit of democracy is not a mechanical thing to be adjusted by abolition of forms. It requires change of heart.

It is quite proper to resist and attack a system, but to resist and attack its author is tantamount to resisting and attacking oneself, for we are all tarred with the same brush, and are children of one and the same Creator, and as such the divine powers within us are infinite. To slight a single human being, is to slight those divine powers and thus to harm not only that Being, but with Him, the whole world.

Let us all be brave enough to die the death of a martyr, but let no one lust for martyrdom.

A True soldier does not argue as he marches, how success is going to be ultimately achieved. But he is confident that if he only plays his humble part well, somehow or other the battle will be won. It is in that spirit that every one of us should act. It is not given to us to know the future. But it is given to everyone of us to know how to do our own part well.

If co-operation is a duty, I hold that non-co-operation also under certain conditions is equally a duty.

Of all the animal creation of God, man is the only animal who has been created in order that he may know his Maker. Man's aim in life is not therefore to add from day to day to his material prospects and to his material possessions, but his predominant calling is, from day to day to come nearer to his own Maker.

Spiritual relationship is far more precious than physical. Physical relationship divorced from spiritual is body without soul.

Man and his deed are two distinct things. Whereas a good deed should call forth approbation, and a wicked deed dis-approbation, the doer of the deed, whether good or wicked always deserves respect or pity as the case may be. Hate the sin and not the sinner is a precept which though easy enough to understand is rarely practised, and that is why the poison of hatred spreads in the world.

All the religions of the world, while they may differ in other respects, unitedly proclaim that nothing lives in this world but Truth.

Morality is the basis of things and truth is the substance of all morality.

Mankind is notoriously too dense to read the signs that God sends from time to time. We require drums to be beaten into our ears, before we should wake from our trance and hear the warning and see that to lose oneself in all, is the only way to find oneself.

I do not want any patronage, as I do not give any. I am a lover of my own liberty, and so I would do nothing to restrict yours. I simply want to please my own conscience, which is God.

Real suffering, bravely borne, melts even a heart of stone. Such is the potency of suffering. And there lies the key to Satyagraha.

But for my faith in God, I should have been a raving maniac.

There is an orderliness in the universe, there is an unalterable law governing everything and every being that exists or lives. It is no blind law; for no blind law can govern the conduct of living beings.

The first condition of humaneness is a little humility and a little diffidence about the correctness of one's conduct and a little receptiveness.

Where love is, there God is also.

We are merely the instruments of the Almighty's will and therefore ignorant of what helps us forward and what acts as an impediment. We must thus rest satisfied with the knowledge only of the means and if these are pure, we can fearlessly leave the end to take care of itself.

There will have to be rigid and iron discipline before we achieve anything great and enduring, and that discipline will not come by mere academic argument and appeal to reason and logic. Discipline is learnt in the school of adversity

Non-violence is not a quality to be evolved or expressed to order. It is an inward growth depending for sustenance upon intense individual effort.

Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position.

I believe that cunning is not only morally wrong but also politically inexpedient, and have therefore always discountenanced its use even from the practical standpoint.

When anything assumes the strength of a creed, it becomes self-sustained and derives the needed support from within.

I do dimly perceive that whilst everything around me is ever-changing, ever-dying, there is underlying all that change a living Power that is changeless, that holds all together, that creates, dissolves and recreates. That informing power or spirit is God. And since nothing else I see merely through the senses can or will persist, He alone is.

Non-violence and cowardice are contradictory terms. Non-violence is the greatest virtue, cowardice the greatest vice. Non-violence springs from love, cowardice from hate. Non-violence always suffers, cowardice would always inflict suffering. Perfect non-violence is the highest bravery. Non-violent conduct is never demoralising, cowardice always is.

Each one has to find his peace from within. And peace to be real must be unaffected by outside circumstances.

It is man's social nature which distinguishes him from the brute creation. If it is his privilege to be independent, it is equally his duty to be inter-dependent. Only an arrogant man will claim to be independent of everybody else and be self-contained.

Healthy discontent is the prelude to progress.

Manliness consists not in bluff, bravado or lordliness. It consists in daring to do the right and facing consequences whether it is in matters social, political or other. It consists in deeds, not in words.

Commonsense is the realised sense of proportion.

Golden fetters are no less galling to a self-respecting man theniron ones; the sting lies in the fetters, not in the metal.

It would conduce to national progress and save a great deal of time and trouble if we cultivated the habit of never supporting the resolutions either by speaking or voting for them if we had not either the intention or the ability to carry them out.

Breach of promise is a base surrender of truth.

Intellect takes us along in the battle of life to a certain limit, but at the crucial moment it fails us. Faith transcends reason. It is when the horizon is the darkest and human reason is beaten down to the ground that faith shines brightest and comes to our rescue.

I reject any religious doctrine that does not appeal to reason and is in conflict with morality.

Gentleness, self-sacrifice and generosity are the exclusive possession of no one race or religion.

Each one prays to God according to his own light.

The world is touched by sacrifice. It does not then discriminate about the merits of a cause. Not so God - He is all seeing. He insists on the purity of the cause and on adequate sacrifice thereof.

Breach of promise is no less an act of insolvency than a refusal to pay one's debt.

Prayer is not asking. It is a longing of the soul. It is daily admission of one's weakness. It is better in prayer to have a heart without words than words without a heart.

The law of sacrifice is uniform throughout the world. To be effective it demands the sacrifice of the bravest and the most spotless.

Man becomes great exactly in the degree in which he works for the welfare of his fellow-men.

We may have our private opinions but why should they be a bar to the meeting of hearts?

There should be truth in thought, truth in speech, and truth in action. To the man who has realised this truth in perfection, nothing else remains to be known because all knowledge is necessarily included in it.

I would heartily welcome the union of East and West provided it is not based on brute force.

I saw that nations like individuals could only be made through the agony of the Cross and in no other way. Joy comes not out of infliction of pain on others but out of pain voluntarily borne by oneself.

An ounce of practice is worth more then tons of preaching.

Courage has never been known to be a matter of muscle; it is a matter of the heart. The toughest muscle has been known to tremble before an imaginary fear. It was the heart that set the muscle atrembling.

To me art in order to be truly great must, like the beauty of Nature, be universal in its appeal. It must be simple in its presentation and direct in its expression, like the language of Nature.

God sometimes does try to the uttermost those whom he wishes to bless.

When restraint and courtesy are added to strength, the latter becomes irresistible.

Suffering has its well-defined limits. Suffering can be both wise and unwise, and when the limit is reached, to prolong it would be not unwise but the height of folly.

Have I not gazed at the marvellous mystery of the starry vault, hardly ever tiring of the great panorama?

I have worshipped woman as the living embodiment of the spirit of service and sacrifice.

Proved right should be capable of being vindicated by right means as against the rude i.e. sanguinary means. Man may and should shed his own blood for establishing what he considers to be his right. He may not shed the blood of his opponent who disputes his 'right'.

I look only to the good qualities of men. Not being faultless myself, I won't presume to probe into the faults of others.

Everyone who wills can hear the inner voice. It is within everyone.

I have been a willing slave to this most exacting Master fr more then half a century. His voice has been increasingly audible as years have rolled by. He has never forsaken me even in my darkest hour. He has saved me often against myself and left me not a vestige of independence. The greater the surrender to Him, the greater has been my joy.

A certain degree of physical harmony and comfort is necessary, but above a certain level it becomes a hindrance instead of a help. Therefore the ideal of creating an unlimited number of wants and satisfying them seems to be a delusion and a snare.

Evil is, good or truth misplaced.

There is no human institution but has its dangers. The greater the institution, the greater the chances of abuse. Democracy is a great institution and therefore it is liable to be greatly abused. The remedy therefore is not avoidance of democracy but reduction of the possibility of abuse to a minimum.

Man can never be a woman's equal in the spirit of selfless service with which nature has endowed her.

I believe in the fundamental truth of all great religions of the world.

My life is one indivisible whole, and all my activities run intoone another, and they all have their rise in my insatiable love of mankind.

I need no inspiration other then Nature's. She has never failed me yet. She mystifies me, bewilders me, sends me into ecstasies. Besides God's handiwork, does not man's fade into insignificance?

The real ornament of woman is her character, her purity.

To deprive a man of his natural liberty and to deny to him the ordinary amenities of life is worse then starving the body; it is starvation of the soul the dweller in the body.

Humility cannot be an observance by itself. For, it does not lend itself to being deliberately practised. It is, however, an indispensable test of 'Ahimsa.' For one who has 'Ahimsa' in him it becomes part of his very nature.

God, as Truth, has been for me a treasure beyond price. May He be so to every one of us.

Non-violence is the greatest force at the disposal of mankind. It is mightier than the mightiest weapon of destruction devised by the ingenuity of man.

Destruction is not the law of humans. Man lives freely only by his readiness to die, if need be, at the hands of his brother, never by killing him. Every murder or other injury, no matter for what cause, committed or inflicted on another is a crime against humanity.

The main purpose of life is to live rightly, think rightly, act rightly. The soul must languish when we give all our thought to the body.

Unwearied ceaseless effort is the price that must be paid for turning faith into a rich infallible experience.

Manliness consists in making circumstances subserve to ourselves.

Those who will not heed themselves perish. To understand this principle is not to be impatient, not to reproach fate, not to blame others. He who understands the doctrine of self-help blames himself for failure.

Surely conversion is a matter between man and his Maker who alone knows his creatures' hearts. A conversion without a clean heart is, in my opinion, a denial of God and Religion. Conversion without cleanliness of heart can only be a matter of sorrow, not joy, to a godly person.

I have not the shadow of a doubt that any man or woman can achieve what I have, if he or she would make the same effort and cultivate the same hope and faith. Work without faith is like an attempt to reach the bottom of a bottomless pit.

Ill-digested principles are, if anything, worse than ill-digested food, for the latter harms the body and there is cure for it, whereas the former ruins the soul and there is no cure for it.

The essence of all religions is one. Only their approaches are different.

Restraint never ruins one's health. What ruins it,is not restraint but outward suppression. A really self-restrained person grows every day from strength to strength and from peace to more peace. The very first step in self-restraint is the restraint of thoughts.

We should meet abuse by forbearance. Human nature is so constituted that if we take absolutely no notice of anger or abuse, the person indulging in it will soon weary of it and stop.

True religion is not a narrow dogma. It is not external observance. It is faith in God and living in the presence of God. It means faith in a future life, in truth and Ahimsa. There prevails today a sort of apathy towards these things of the Spirit.

Only he can take great resolves who has indomitable faith in God and has fear of God.

A small body of determined spirits fired by an unquenchable faith in their mission can alter the course of history.

I may live without air and water, but not without Him. You may pluck out my eyes, but that cannot kill me. You may chop off my nose but that will not kill me. But blast my belief in God, and I am dead.

Man's nature is not essentially evil. Brute nature has been know to yield to the influence of love. You must never despair of human nature.

Freedom is never dear at any price. It is the breath of life. What would a man not pay for living ?

I know, to banish anger altogether from one's breast is a difficult task. It cannot be achieved through pure personal effort. It can be done only by God's grace.

Everyone has faith in God though everyone does not know it. For everyone has faith in himself and that multiplied to the nth degree is God. The sum total of all that lives is God. We may not be God, but we are of God, even as a little drop of water is of the ocean.

There is no one without faults, not even men of God. They are men of God not because they are faultless, but because they know their own faults, they strive against them, they do not hide them, and are ever ready to correct themselves.

Non-violence and cowardice go ill together. I can imagine a fully armed man to be at heart a coward. Possession of arms implies an element of fear, if not cowardice. But true non-violence is an impossibility without the possession of unadulterated fearlessness.

Providence has its appointed hour for everything. We cannot command results, we can only strive.

The hardest metal yields to sufficient heat. Even so must the hardest heart melt before sufficiency of the heat of non- violence. And there is no limit to the capacity of non-violence to generate heat.

Rights accrue automatically to him who duly performs his duties. In fact the right to perform one's duties is the only right that is worth living for and dying for. It covers all legitimate rights. All the rest is grab under one guise or another and contains in it seed of Himsa.

It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may. We are never able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us. This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good heart whatever they might have to say.

Far more indispensable then food for the physical body is spiritual nourishment for the soul. One can do without food for a considerable time, but a man of the spirit cannot exist for a single second without spiritual nourishment.

A dissolute character is more dissolute in thought than in deed. And the same is true of violence. Our violence in word and deed is but a feeble echo of the surging violence of thought in us.

Democracy must in essence, therefore, mean the art and science of mobilising the entire physical, economic and spiritual resources of all the various sections of the people in the service of the common good of all.

A principle is a principle. and in no case can it be watered down because of our incapacity to live it in practice. We have to strive to achieve it, and the striving should be conscious, deliberate and hard.

A nation's culture resides in the hearts and in the soul of itspeople.

Who am I? I have no strength save what God gives me. I have no authority over my countrymen save the pure moral. If He holds me to be a pure instrument for the spread of non-violence in place of the awful violence now ruling the earth, He will give me the strength and show me the way. My greatest weapon is mute prayer. The cause of peace is therefore, in God's good hands.

I want to see India free in my life-time. But God may not consider me fit enough to see the dream of my life fulfilled. Then I shall quarrel, not with Him but with myself.

All compromise is based on give and take, but there can be no give and take on fundamentals. Any compromise on mere fundamentals is a surrender. For it is all give and no take.

Between husband and wife there should be no secrets from one another. I have a very high opinion of the marriage tie. I hold that husband and wife merge in each other. They are one in two or two in one.

It is foolish to think that by fleeing one can trick the dread god of death. Let us treat him as a beneficent angel rather than a dread god. We must face and welcome him whenever he comes.

It is the law of love that rules mankind. Had violence, i.e. hate, ruled us we should have become extinct long ago. And yet, the tragedy of it is that the so-called civilized men and nations conduct themselves as if the basis of society was violence.

The badge of the violent is his weapon, spear, sword or rifle. God is the shield of the non-violent.

It is unwise to be too sure of one's own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.

It is through truth non-violence that I can have some glimpseof God. Truth non-violence are my God. They are the obverse and reverse of the same coin.

Before the throne of the Almighty, man will be judged not by his acts but by his intentions. For God alone reads our hearts.

Morality which depends upon the helplessness of a man or woman has not much to recommend it. Morality is rooted in the purity of our hearts.

An opponent is entitled to the same regard for his principles as we would expect others to have for ours. Non-violence demands that we should seek every opportunity to win over opponents.

Glory lies in the attempt to reach one's goal and not in reaching it.

Just as a man would not cherish living in a body other than his own, so do nations not like to live under other nations, however noble and great the latter may be.

No religion which is narrow and which cannot satisfy the test of reason, will survive the coming reconstruction of society in which the values will have changed and character, not possession of wealth, title or birth will be the test of merit.

How can one be compelled to accept slavery? I simply refuse to do the master's bidding. He may torture me, break my bones to atoms and even kill me. He will then have my dead body, not my obedience. Ultimately, therefore, it is I who am the victor and not he, for he has failed in getting me to do what he wanted done.

Non-violence requires a double faith, faith in God and also faith in man.

Man falls from the pursuit of the ideal of plan living and high thinking the moment he wants to multiply his daily wants. Man's happiness really lies in contentment.

Power invariably elects to go into the hands of the strong. That strength may be physical or of the heart or, if we do not fight shy of the word, of the spirit. Strength of the heart connotes soul-force. Let it be remembered that physical force is transitory, even as the body is transitory. But the power of the spirit is permanent even as the spirit is everlasting.

Truth quenches untruth, love quenches anger, self-suffering quenches violence. This eternal rule is a rule not for saints only but for all.

My work will be finished if I succeed in carrying conviction to the human family, that every man or woman, however weak in body, is the guardian of his or her self-respect and liberty, and that this defence prevails, though the world be against the individual resister.

Confession of errors is like a broom which sweeps away the dirt and leaves the surface brighter and clearer. I feel stronger for confession.

I worship God as Truth only. I have not yet found Him, but I am seeking after Him. I am prepared to sacrifice the things dearest to me in pursuit of this quest. Even if the sacrifice demanded my very life, I hope I may be prepared to give it.

We do not need to proselytise either by our speech or by our writing. We can only do so really with our lives. Let our lives be open books for all to study.

A customer is the most important visitor on our premises. He is not dependent on us. We are dependent on him. He is not an interruption of our work. He is the purpose of it. He is not an outsider to our business. He is part of it. We are not doing him a favour by serving him. He is doing us a favour by giving us the opportunity to do so.

Saturday, January 29, 2005

WHY?

Why are cigarettes sold in gas stations when smoking is prohibited there?

Why are there flotation devices under plane seats instead of parachutes?

Why are there interstate highways in Hawaii?

Why did kamikaze pilots wear helmets?

Why do croutons come in airtight packages? Aren't they just stale bread to begin with?

Why do people who know the least know it the loudest?

Why do steam irons have a permanent press setting?

Why do they call it a TV set when you only get one?

Why do they call it the Department of Interior when they are in charge of everything outdoors?

Why do they lock gas station bathrooms? Are they afraid someone will clean them?

Why do they put Braille dots on the keypad of the drive-up ATM?

Why do they sterilize the needles for lethal injections?

What do they use to ship styrofoam?

Why do we drive on parkways and park on driveways?

Why do you need a driver's license to buy liquor when you can't drink and drive?

Why do you press harder on a remote-control when you know the battery is dead?

Why does the sun lighten our hair, but darken our skin?

Why doesn't DOS ever say "EXCELLENT command or file name"?

Why doesn't glue stick to the inside of the bottle?

Why doesn't Tarzan have a beard?

Why don't you ever see the headline "Psychic Wins Lottery"?

Why is "abbreviated" such a long word?

Why is lemon juice made with artificial flavor, and dishwashing liquid made with real lemons?

Why is a person who plays the piano called a pianist but a person who drives a racecar is not called a racist?

Why is it called lipstick if you can still move your lips?

Why is it considered necessary to nail down the lid of a coffin?

Why is it that doctors call what they do "practice"?

Why is it that in the US: If you take off all your clothes and walk down the street waving a machete and firing an Uzi, terrified citizens will phone the police and report: "There's a naked person outside!"

Why is it that rain drops but snow falls?

Why is it that to stop Windows, you have to click on "Start"?

Why is it that when you transport something by car, it's called a shipment, but when you transport something by ship, it's called cargo?

Why is it that when you're driving and looking for an address, you turn down the volume on the radio?

Why is the man who invests all your money, called a broker?

Why is the third hand on the watch called a second hand?

Why is the time of day with the slowest traffic called rush hour?

Why is there an expiration date on my sour cream container?

Why isn't there a special name for the tops of your feet?

Why isn't there mouse flavored cat food? There is fish flavored!

Why isn't phonetic spelled the way it sounds?

Friday, January 28, 2005

Top 100 Songs of the 20th Century

This list is one of the Century Classics series.

The 100 songs are merely my choices for the best of the 20th century.

All songs are in English or translated into English with both words and music.

No instrumental songs are included.

The songs include classical, folk, jazz, pop, theater, movie, country, and rock categories.

They were chosen because of their originality, importance and/or popularity.

"Lift Every Voice and Sing" (1900) - w: James W. Johnson/ m: J. Rosamond Johnson

"Sweet Adeline" (1903) - w: Richard H. Gerard/ m: Harry Armstrong

"Toyland" (1903) - words: Glen McDonough/ music: Victor Herbert

"Meet Me in St. Louis" (1904) - w: Arthur B. Sterling/ m: Kerry Mills

"Give My Regards To Broadway" (1904) - words & music: George M. Cohan

"I Love You Truly" (1906) - w & m: Carrie Jacobs-Bond

"You're a Grand Old Flag" (1906) - words & music: George M. Cohan

"My Gal Sal"(1907) - w & m: Paul Dresser

"Take Me Out to the Ballgame" (1908) - words: Jack Norwoth/ m: Albert von Tilzer

"By the Light of the Silvery Moon" (1909) - w: Edward Madden/ m: Gus Edwards

"Alexander's Ragtime Band" (1911) - w & m: Irving Berlin

"My Melancholy Baby" (1912) - w: George A. Norton/ m: Ernie Burnett

"On Moonlight Bay" (1912) - w: Edward Madden/ m: Percy Weinrich

"General William Booth Enters Into Heaven" (1914) - w: Vachel Lindsay/ m: Charles Ives

"St. Louis Blues" (1914) - w & m: W.C. Handy

"They Didn't Believe Me?" (1914) - w: Michael E. Rourke/ m: Jerome Kern

"Over There" (1917) - w & m: George M. Cohan

"The Lament of Ian the Proud" (1918) - w: Fiona MacLeod/m: Charles T. Griffes

"Rock-a-Bye Your Baby" (1918) - w: Sam Lewis & Joe Young/ m: Jean Schwartz

"Swanee" (1919) - w: Irving Caesar/ m: George Gershwin

"Whispering" (1920) - w & m: John Schonberger, Richard Coburn, Vincent Rose

"Ain't We Got Fun?" (1921) - w & m: Richard A. Whiting, Raymond B. Egan, Gus Kahn

"April Showers" (1921) - w: Buddy De Sylva/ m: Louis Silvers

"Manhattan" (1925) - w: Lorenz Hart/ m: Richard Rodgers

"Someone to Watch Over Me" (1926) - w: Ira Gershwin/ m: George Gershwin

"My Blue Heaven" (1927) - w: George Whiting/ m: Walter Donaldson

"Ol' Man River" (1927) - w: Oscar Hammerstein II/ m: Jerome Kern

"Star Dust" - w: Mitchell Parrish, 1929/ m: Hoagy Carmichael, 1927

"I Can't Give You Anything But Love"(1928) - w: Dorothy Fields/ m: Jimmy McHugh

"Ain't Misbehavin'" (1929) - w: Andy Razaf/ m: Fats Waller

"I Got Rhythm" (1930) - w: Ira Gershwin/ m: George Gershwin

"Mood Indigo" (1931) - w & m: Edward "Duke" Ellington and Irving Mills

"Brother Can You Spare A Dime?" (1932) - w: E.Y. Harburg/ m: Jay Gorney

"Night and Day" (1932) - w & m: Cole Porter

"The Last Round-Up" (1933) - w & m: Billy Hill

"Sophisticated Lady" (1933) - w: Mitchell Parrish, Irving Mills/m: Duke Ellington

"Stormy Weather" (1933) - w: Ted Koehler/ m: Harold Arlen

"Solitude" (1934) - w: Eddie DeLange, Irving Mills/m: Duke Ellington

"Begin the Beguine" (1935) - w & m: Cole Porter

"Cheek to Cheek" (1935) - w & m: Irving Berlin

"I've Got You Under My Skin" (1935) - w & m: Cole Porter

"Summertime" (1935) - w: DuBose Heyward/ m: George Gershwin

"The Way You Look Tonight" (1936) - w: Dorothy Fields/m: Jerome Kern

"They Can't Take That Away From Me" (1937) - w: Ira Gershwin/ m: G. Gershwin

"God Bless America" (1938) - w & m: Irving Berlin

"All the Things You Are" (1939) - w: Oscar Hammerstein II/ m: Jerome Kern

"Over the Rainbow" (1939) - w: E.Y. Harburg/ m: Harold Arlen

"In the Mood" (1939) - w: Andy Razaf/ m: Joe Garland

"Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered" (1940) - w: Lorenz Hart/ m: R. Rodgers

"When You Wish Upon a Star" (1940) - w: Ned Washington/ m: Leigh Harline

"I'll Never Smile Again" (1940) - w & m: Ruth Lowe

"Blues in the Night" (1941) - w: Johnny Mercer/ m: Harold Arlen

"Chattanooga Choo-Choo" (1941) - w: Mack Gordon/ m: Harry Warren

"White Christmas" (1942) - w & m: Irving Berlin

"Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin'" (1943) - w: O. Hammerstein II/m: Richard Rodgers

"Ac-cent-tchuate the Positive" (1945) - w: Johnny Mercer/ m: Harold Arlen

"It Might As Well Be Spring" (1945) - w: O. Hammerstein II/ m: R. Rodgers

"There's No Business Like Show Business" (1946) - w & m: Irving Berlin

"Near You" (1947) - w: Kermit Goell/m: Francis Craig

"Riders in the Sky" (1949) w & m: Stan Jones

"Goodnight Irene" (1950) - w & m: Huddie Ledbetter & Alan Lomax

"Simple Gifts" (1848/1950) - w & m: Joseph Brackett, arr. by Aaron Copland

"You Belong to Me" (1952) - w & m: Pee Wee King, Redd Stewart, Chilton Price

"Your Cheatin' Heart" (1952) - w & m: Hank Williams

"Earth Angel" (1954) - w & m: Curtis Williams

"Rock Around the Clock" (1955) - w & m: Max Freedman and Jimmy DeKnight

"Sincerely" (1955) - w & m: Harvey Fuqua & Alan Freed

"Don't Be Cruel" (1956) - w & m: Otis Blackwell (also credited to Elvis Presley)

"On the Street Where You Live" (1956) - w: Alan Jay Lerner/m: F. Loewe

"This Land is Your Land" (1956) - w & m: Woody Guthrie

"True Love" (1956) - w & m: Cole Porter

"All the Way" (1957) - w: Sammy Cahn/ m: James Van Heusen

"Maria" (1957) - w: Stephen Sondheim/ m: Leonard Bernstein

"Mack the Knife" (1955/1959) - w: Bertold Brecht (trans. by Marc Blitzstein)/m: Kurt Weill

"Small World" (1959) - w: Stephen Sondheim/ m: Jule Styne

"Camelot" (1960) - w: Alan Jay Lerner/ m: Frederick Loewe

"Crazy (1961) - w & m: Willie Nelson

"Moon River" (1961) - w: Johnny Mercer/ m: Henry Mancini

"Blowin' in the Wind" (1962) - w & m: Bob Dylan

"Call Me Irresponsible" (1963) - w: Sammy Cahn/ m: James Van Heusen

"I Want to Hold Your Hand" (1964) - w & m: John Lennon & Paul McCartney

"The Shadow of Your Smile" (1965) - w: Paul Francis Webster/m: Johnny Mandel

"Yesterday" (1965) - w & m: John Lennon & Paul McCartney

"What a Wonderful World" (1967) - w: George Douglas/m: George David Weiss

"Mrs. Robinson" (1967) - w & m: Paul Simon

"Hey Jude" (1968) - w & m: John Lennon & Paul McCartney

"My Way" (1969) - w: Paul Anka/ m: Jacques Reveaux and Claude Francois

"Bridge Over Troubled Water" (1970) - w & m: Paul Simon

"American Pie" (1971) - w & m: Don McLean

"The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face" (1972) - w & m: Ewan MacColl

"The Way We Were" (1973) - w: Alan & Marilyn Bergman/m: Marvin Hamlisch

"You Are the Sunshine of My Life" (1973) - w & m: Stevie Wonder

"Just the Way You Are" (1978) - w & m: Billy Joel

"Night Fever" (1978) - w & m: Barry, Maurice and Robin Gibb

"We Are The World" (1985) - w & m: Michael Jackson and Lionel Richie

"That's What Friends Are For" (1986) - w & m: Carole Bayer Sager & Burt Bacharach

"Beauty and the Beast" (1991) - w: Howard Ashman/m: Alan Menken

"I Will Always Love You" (1974/1992) - w & m: Dolly Parton/ arr. Whitney Houston

"Candle in the Wind" (1973/1997) -w & m: Bernie Taupin & Elton John/arr.E. John

"My Heart Will Go On" (1997) - w: Will Jennings/ m: James Horner

Thursday, January 27, 2005

Listening Without Thought

I do not know whether you have listened to a bird. To listen to something demands that your mind be quiet - not a mystical quietness, but just quietness. I am telling you something, and to listen to me you have to be quiet, not have all kinds of ideas buzzing in your mind. When you look at a flower, you look at it, not naming it, not classifying it, not saying that it belongs to a certain species - when you do these, you cease to look at it. Therefore, I am saying that it is one of the most difficult things to listen - to listen to the communist, to the socialist, to a congressman, to a capitalist, to anyone, to your wife, to your children, to your neighbour, to the bus conductor, to the bird - just to listen. It is only when you listen without thought, that you are directly in contact; and being in contact, you will understand whether what he is saying is true or false; you do not have to discuss.

Wednesday, January 26, 2005

Mother, I bow to thee!

Mother, I bow to thee!
Rich with thy hurrying streams,
bright with orchard gleams,
Cool with thy winds of delight,
Dark fields waving Mother of might,
Mother free.

Glory of moonlight dreams,
Over thy branches and lordly streams,
Clad in thy blossoming trees,
Mother, giver of ease
Laughing low and sweet!
Mother I kiss thy feet,
Speaker sweet and low!
Mother, to thee I bow.

Who hath said thou art weak in thy lands
When the sword flesh out in the seventy million hands
And seventy million voices roar
Thy dreadful name from shore to shore?
With many strengths who art mighty and stored,
To thee I call Mother and Lord!
Though who savest, arise and save!
To her I cry who ever her foeman drove
Back from plain and Sea
And shook herself free.

Thou art wisdom, thou art law,
Thou art heart, our soul, our breath
Though art love divine, the awe
In our hearts that conquers death.
Thine the strength that nervs the arm,
Thine the beauty, thine the charm.
Every image made divine
In our temples is but thine.

Thou art Durga, Lady and Queen,
With her hands that strike and her
swords of sheen,
Thou art Lakshmi lotus-throned,
And the Muse a hundred-toned,
Pure and perfect without peer,
Mother lend thine ear,
Rich with thy hurrying streams,
Bright with thy orchard gleems,
Dark of hue O candid-fair

In thy soul, with jewelled hair
And thy glorious smile divine,
Lovilest of all earthly lands,
Showering wealth from well-stored hands!
Mother, mother mine!
Mother sweet, I bow to thee,
Mother great and free!

Translation by ShrI Aurobindo

Tuesday, January 25, 2005

The Art of Letting Go

Dr. Alan Zimmerman's Comments:

Sooner or later, everyone you know will disappoint you in some way. They'll say something or fail to say something that will hurt you. And they'll do something or fail to do something that will anger you. It's inevitable.

Unfortunately, you make things worse when you stew over someone's words and deeds. When you dwell on a rude remark or an insensitive action made by another person, you're headed for deeper problems.

In fact, the more you dwell on these things, the more bitter you'll get.

You'll find your joy, peace and happiness slipping away. And you'll find your productivity slowing down as you spend more and more time thinking about the slight or telling others about it. Eventually, if you don't stop doing it, you'll even get sick.

So what should you do the next time someone betrays you?

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FEELINGS.

Even though the other person may be at fault, even though the other person wronged you, you are still responsible for your own feelings.

In other words, other people do not "cause" your feelings. You choose them.

For example, two different people could be told that their suggestions made at the staff meeting were "stupid and idiotic." One person may "choose" to feel so hurt that he never speaks up at any other meeting again. The other person may "choose" to feel sorry for the critic, sorry that the critic couldn't see the wisdom and necessity of her suggestions.

As long as you blame other people for your feelings, as long as you believe other people caused your feelings, you're stuck. You're a helpless victim.

But if you recognize the fact that you choose your feelings and you are responsible for your feelings, there's hope. You can take some time to think about your feelings. And you can decide what is the best thing to say or do.

Then, you've got to learn to WALK AWAY FROM DISAPPOINTMENT.

It's difficult to do, but it's possible. The famous 19th century Scottish historian, Thomas Carlyle, proved that.

After working on his multi-volume set of books on "The French Revolution" for six years, Carlyle completed the manuscript and took volume one to his friend John Stuart Mill. He asked Mill to read it.

Five days later, Mill's maid accidentally threw the manuscript into the fire. In agony, Mill went to Carlyle's house to tell him that his work had been destroyed.

Carlyle did not flinch. With a smile, he said, "That's all right, Mill. These things happen. It is a part of life. I will start over. I can remember most of it, I am sure. Don't worry. It's all here in my mind. Go, my friend! Do not feel bad."

As Mill left, Carlyle watched him from the window. Carlyle turned to his wife and said, "I did not want him to see how crushed I am by this misfortune." And with a heavy sigh, he added, "Well the manuscript is gone, so I had better start writing again."

Carlyle finally completed the work, which ranks as one of the great classics of all time. He had learned to walk away from his disappointment.

After all, what could Carlyle have done about his burnt manuscript?

Nothing. Nothing would have resurrected the manuscript. All Carlyle could do was to get bitter or get started. And what can you do about anything once it is over? Not much. You can try to correct it if it is possible, or you can walk away from it if it isn't. Those are your only two choices.

Sometimes you've just got to shake it off and step up. It's like the farmer who had an old mule who fell into a deep dry well. As he assessed the situation, he knew it would be difficult, if not impossible, to lift the heavy mule out of the deep well.

So the farmer decided to bury the mule in the well.

After all, the mule was old and the well was dry, so he could solve two problems at once. He could put the old mule out of his misery and have his well filled.

The farmer asked his neighbours to help him with the shovelling. To work they went. As they threw shovel-full of dirt after shovel-full of dirt on the mule's back, the mule became frightened.

Then all of a sudden an idea came to the mule. Each time they would throw a shovel-full of dirt on his back, he would shake it off and step up.

Shovel-full after shovel-full, the mule would shake it off and step up. In not too long a time, the exhausted and dirty mule stepped over the top of the well and through the crowd.

That's the same approach we all need to take. We need to shake it off and step up.

Finally, you need to FORGIVE. It's difficult, especially when the other person doesn't deserve your forgiveness or doesn't even seek it. It's difficult when the other person is clearly in the wrong.

Part of the difficulty comes from a common misunderstanding of forgiveness.

Forgiveness doesn't mean that the other person's behaviour is okay.

And forgiveness doesn't mean that the other person is off the hook.

He's still responsible for his misbehaviour.

Forgiveness is about letting yourself off the emotional hook. It's about releasing your negative emotions, attitudes, and behaviours.

It's about letting go of the past so you can go forward to the future.

Everyone in your life, everyone on and off the job is going to disappoint you. If you know how to respond to those situations, you'll be way ahead of most people. You'll be able to live above and beyond your circumstances.

Action:

Identify two people that have disappointed, hurt, or angered you. If possible, select two people towards whom you still have some bitterness.

Then ask yourself, "How does my bitterness serve me?

Am I happier holding on to it?

Do I sleep better?

Is my life richer, fuller, and better because of my bitterness?"

If you find that your bitterness is hurting you, make a decision.

Actually decide to let it go.

Walk away from the disappointment -- which means you no longer dwell on it or talk about it. Period!

Monday, January 24, 2005

Reflections From Arcadia

My Dear Sean got me these episodes from US of a series called Joan of Arcadia and I frankly loved the concept and I actually thought that it was something that I related to after Ally McBeal and that states a lot. I am waiting and wondering if they will show the series here.

I always get the signs when I am ready and Joan of Arcadia set another chain
reaction.

I am sharing my favourite quotes from Joan of Arcadia, some of them touched me deeply, just so you all know, it is about a girl, who encounters God in different human forms and she talks to God.
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God: [when Joan refuses to talk to Him or even believe that He's real] Don't
you miss me, just a little?
Joan: [lying] No.
God: Don't you miss yourself?
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God: Stop underachieving. Stop squandering the potential I gave you. Have
some pride.
Joan: What about humility?
God: Humility isn't actually humility unless there's something you're good
enough at to be humble about.
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God: Let me explain something to you Joan. It goes like this: I don't look like this. I don't look like anything you'd recognize. You can't see me. I don't sound like this. I don't sound like anything you'd recognize. You see I'm beyond your experience. I take this form because you're comfortable with it. It makes sense to you. And if I'm "snippy' it's because you understand snippy. Do ya get it?
Joan: Sort of.
God: Good, cause I'm really not snippy. I've got a great personality. You'd like me.
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Joan: Let's see a miracle.
God/boy: How about that?
Joan: It's a tree.
God/boy: Let's see you make one
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God: I'm not appearing to you. You are seeing me.
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God: I'm omniscient, Joan - it comes with the job.
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Electrician (God): Look, you won't always know why I ask you to do things. You won't always see the effects. Just think about what you learned in AP Chemistry.
Joan: I didn't learn anything. I got the others to do it.
Electrician (God):The smallest catalyst can set off mind-boggling chain-reactions. One time, I said, 'Let there be light'.. all hell broke loose, figuratively speaking.
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Little Girl/God: I put a lot of thought into the universe. I came up with the rules. It sets a bad example if I break them. Not to mention, it shows favouritism. Why should one person get a miracle, and not everybody else?
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(The previous night God had appeared on TV and Joan's father turned off the TV)
God: Joan, you want proof? When you're all alone you practice french kissing in the mirror.
Joan: Shhhh. Why do you have to be so mean? Oh, and by the way, the other night, it was my father that turned you off, not me.
God: Oh, okay. He shall burn for eternity in Hell.
Joan: What? No, he's a nice guy and he didn't mean it...
God: I'm just kidding, where do you people get this stuff?
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Little Girl/God: You'd like to give me a slap, wouldn't you?
Joan: Yeah...but you're so cute.
Little Girl/God: By the way, as an instrument of Me, have some pride. Do better. Do your best.
Joan: Now I'd like to slap you.
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Electrician/God: Are you looking for me?
Joan: Um, I'm not sure.
Electrician/God: Cause when you're alone, that hideous song from Titanic makes you cry.
Joan: Why do you have to be so mean?
Electrician/God: Why do you have to keep questioning me? Most people would be on their best behavior.
Joan: Okay, you know, I've been thinking and I figured out that the reason why you had me join A.P. chem is so I can be a doctor, right?
Electrician/God: Okay, News flash, Joan, you don't need to tell me about what you've been thinking. I'm omniscient, remember?
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Joan: So my true nature is I'm a catalyst? That's mad anticlimatic.
Electrician/God: Anticlimactic. 'Anticlimatic' means you're...against the weather.
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Joan: God.
Electrician (God): Yes?
Joan: No, I was taking your name in vain, to be technical. Sorry.
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God: Just because I speak doesn't mean that anyone will listen.
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Mailwoman/God: (looking at a dollar bill) "In Me You Trust." Not entirely true.
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Joan: I meant that they'll see you.
Cute Boy (God): Yeah, I've noticed that this look turns a lot of heads.
Joan: It's called being hot.
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Joan: People will see us.
Cute Boy/God: Yep, the optic nerve was pretty inspired.
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Cute Boy/God: You didn't read the book, did you?
Joan: Oh, like you don't know. 'Cain, where's your brother?'. Very passive-aggressive.
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Cute Boy/God: Oh Joan, Would have been so much easier if you just read the book. Now I'm gonna have to send you to the basement.
Joan: You mean like, Hell?
Cute Boy/God: No, I mean, like, the basement. There's one in the school. Check it out.
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Joan: Oh, the package is C.O.D.? Uh, I don't have any cash...
God: You have 12 dollars in your pocket which you were going to buy a muffin and a frappucino with while you ditched history class, which you really shouldn't do, by the way.
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God: So I guess this mean you're not going to keep your promise?
Joan: What promise?
God: Oh, let's see, You'd study more, stop getting fresh with your parents and even go to church if I let your brother live.
Joan: So, are you here to... collect?
God: No. I don't bargain, that would be cruel.
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Joan: God joined the Army.
God/Navy Man: Navy. It's thematic – I want you to build a boat.
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Joan: So did you just pop up to keep me from telling Adam about you?
God/Old Lady: I don't pop – I abide. I'm eternal. No popping.
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Joan: Do you understand the concept of time management?
Housewife/God: I don't care much about time – that's one of your innovations.
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Deliveryman/God: Romantic love – I'm proud of that. Some of my best work.
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Businessman/God: Where do you think that kind of thing comes from in a person?
Joan: A mood.
Businessman/God: You have a mood, you eat French Fries. But when you have pain, there's a little more work to deal with it.
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Joan: How bad was it?
Businessman/God: It was evil...and I don't throw that word around.
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Homeless Man (God): Be not afraid, Joan.
Joan: Be not afraid? What's with that?
Homeless Man (God): Sometimes I like to sound old timey.
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Joan: Oh, ok ok, like it's really good for me to hear about people butchering each other for 100 years just because they believed in you!
Hot Dog (God): That´s not about faith. That's politics. It's sort of like the difference between friendship and popularity.
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Hot Dog Guy/God: What is it with you people? I give you very simple instructions and *boom* you're right back to false gods.
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Joan: What kind of system is it?
Little Girl/God: A perfect one. Trust me. (long pause)
Joan: I'm listening...
Little Girl/God: I'm finished.
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Flight Attendant/God: I find Career Day a little bit bogus.
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Cute Guy/God: Joan, there's nothing I could say about (dying) that would make sense to you.
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Power-Walking Woman/God: (talking to Joan) I understand you're confused. But there are no dilemmas without confusion, there's no free will without dilemmas, and there's no humanity without free will.
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Joan: (to Power-Walking Woman God) I always thought you'd be nicer!
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Painter (God): Martyrs did things the hard way and were willing to except the consequences, just like I'm asking you to do.
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DMV Clerk (God): You're apprehensive, just like you were when you got a training bra. (Joan looks around, nervously) And that's good.
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Plumber-God: Well, I'm God. My needs come first.
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Goth Kid (God): I wouldn't worry about self-defense.
Joan: Then why the psycho mission? Because I didn't sign up for martyrdom.
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Goth Kid (God): Have I ever endangered you?
Joan: Well, you never told me to ask evil out on a date before.
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Goth Kid (God): Almost everybody has some light, somewhere. And light is always worth fighting for.
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Joan: So what do you want me to fail at this time?
Older Woman (God): Now what makes you think you failed? You did exactly what I asked you to do - you observed.
Joan: Hmm! And what good did that do anybody? Ramsey's going to jail, Adam hates me even more...
Older Woman (God): Observation is a more powerful force than you could possibly reckon. The invisible, the overlooked, and the unobserved are the most in danger of reaching the end of the spectrum. They lose the last of their light. From there, anything can happen.
Joah: (sighs) Okay. Fine, I observe Ramsey, his life is still ruined.
Older Woman (God): His life wasn't the only one at stake.
Joan: What do you mean?
Older Woman (God): (starts pointing out different students in the hallway) There's Laura Eason, ninth grader. She plays the flute. She would have been one of the first to go (gunshot sound) coming out of Orchestra at the wrong time. And Andrew Bayer - he would have tried to save his friend Lawrence DiStasi and lost his life (gunshot sound). And Gavin Price (gunshot sound), and three other students in the cafeteria. And Mr. Harvey. And Ms. Schmidt in the library. And finally, Steve Ramsey himself. And for each of these faces Joan, there are twelve more whose lives would have come to an end today - lives altered forever by you. By the simple effect of being present, by entering the light, by joining the dance.
(Joan wipes away a tear)
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Old Lady (God): Observation is a more powerful force than you can possibly reckon. The invisible, the overlooked, and the unobserved are those that are most in danger of reaching the end of the spectrum. They lose the last of their light. From there, anything can happen.
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Joan: You're getting really good at showing up when no one needs you.
Old Lady (God): That's your opinion.
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Goth Kid (God): 'Evil' is not a word to use lightly. It's only the darkest end of a broad spectrum.
Joan: You mean like...light?
Goth Kid (God): Exactly like light. Nobody's born in total darkness. Most of you live on the gray end of the spectrum...a lie here, and there. Jealousy. Wrath. But you only get to absolute evil by doing one thing after another until eventually you're transformed.
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Creepy Guy (God): I leave hints all over the place. I'm all about hints.
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Joan: (to Dr. Halliwell (God)) You invented drugs, didn't you?
Dr. Halliwell (God): I invented rattlesnakes. Doesn't mean I want you playing around with them.
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Liquor Store Clerk (God): Joan, you did invite Adam?
Joan: Sure.
Liquor Store Clerk (God): And he realizes you're inviting him?
Joan: As in a date?
Liquor Store Clerk (God): Figure it out.
Luke: I'm sorry, he's approving your guest list?
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Cute Guy (God): Adam is confused.
Joan: Adam is always confused.
Cute Guy (God): Okay, well, you're introducing new levels of confusion.
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Joan: Adam will believe me.
God: Yes... but you don't know Adam that well yet. For example, you don't know how many burdens the boy is already carrying. And I'd like you to consider the possibility that it is you who should take on some of his burdens, not vice versa.
Joan: Adam has burdens?
God: Sometimes they look a lot like gifts.
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Joan: God smokes?
Liquor Store Clerk (God): I don't inhale.
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Joan: See, nobody thinks of you as fun.
Dr. Halliwell (God): And that's the problem.
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Joan: (to God) Shouldn't you be a better dancer? (doorbell rings) Excuse me, your all-mightiness.
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Computer Girl (God): (eating) Are you pro or con, Joan?
Joan: I'm annoyed. As long as you're asking, can I have a bite of that? I had to skip lunch for this, remember.
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Joan: (being wanded) What? I didn't set off any alarm! So unless you want to sentence me to death for possession of Gummi Bears, I would like to go to class.
Security Guy (God): You seem very upset, Joan. Take a breath.
Joan: Fascist God?
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Security Guard (God): Do you know what Grace is, Joan?
Joan: Yeah – pissed off!
Security Guard (God): (sighs) Do you know the meaning of the word ‘grace'?
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Security Guard (God): 'Suck' is a relative term, Joan. Things could be much worse.
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Security Guard (God): What, a lively exchange of ideas in search of the truth? Who wouldn't love that?
Joan: Uh, ME.
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Butcher (God): I don't exist because people believe in me. I simply exist, whether people believe in me or not.
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Security Guard (God): (to Joan) Do you know the meaning of grace? It is a touch of truth, that let's you see the world in a new way. It's a gift that can only be felt when you are open enough to accept it.
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Little Girl (God): Come on, I'll walk you home.
(Joan and LGG walk away hand in hand.)
Joan: Great, I'm being escorted home by a six-year-old.
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Joan: You didn't answer my question.
Concession Stand (God): I don't answer questions, sweetpea. And this you know.
Joan: But I gave you a dollar!
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Joan: (to Little Girl (God)) You're in charge until I get back.
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Little Girl (God): Everyone has a part of themselves they don't like, Joan. You carry it around like a weight. The lucky ones realize that when it becomes too heavy, you can choose to set it down. That's when you can see things the way they really are.
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Hippie Dog Walker (God): I work in mysterious ways, Joan. It's my thing.
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Joan: Please don't make me cancel on Adam. I can't stand him hating me again. It'd be like being in some Russian goulash.
Little Girl (God): Gulag.
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Guitar-Guy (God): (singing badly) I said yeah...
Joan: (interrupting) That was really humiliating. God should know how to carry a tune.
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Guitar-Guy (God): (singing show theme off-key) Just a stranger on the bus...
Joan: Grace was right. You do suck.
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Pizza Guy God: (After delivering Joan a pizza) No tip? I got it here in under thirty minutes.
Joan: Oh, like that's really hard for you?!
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Mascot (God): I asked you to jump. All you've done so far is fall. Go back and jump, Joan.
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Doctor (God): I don't punish you, you punish yourselves. You're so good at it I could almost retire.
Joan: Huh, why don't you?
Doctor (God): I like my work.
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Doctor (God): You should really learn to avoid unnecessary pain.
Joan: You should really learn how to pick on a supreme being your own size.
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Joan: Are you an exchange student?
Exchange Student (God): You might say I'm in charge of the exchange program.
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Exchange Student (God): Repeating myself is part of the job. ‘Vengeance is mine . . . ‘ sayeth me.
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Joan: You've never been to high school.
Exchange Student (God): You've never been to the Crusades.
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Joan: (walking away from Goth Kid (God)) You're not going to stop me?
Goth Kid (God): It's your choice to walk away. I just think it's interesting that of all the tasks I've given you, buying Cream of Wheat is the one you're abandoning.
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Joan: Are you there God? It's me, Joan...and you suck. (The power goes out.)
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Goth Kid (God): You don't need me, you're doing great.
Joan: Oh, okay, and so you're here to what, show me your new nose ring?
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Joan: And here's the part where you reassure me...
Goth Kid (God): It is scary.
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Joan: Yeah, well you can raise people from the dead, so just wave your hand and fix this stupid thing.
Piano Tuner (God): If you want special effects rent Lord of the Rings.
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Balloon Sculptor (God): Good is relevant. Beauty's relevant. Everything's relevant. Except for me. I'm absolute.
Joan: I thought that was vodka.
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Goth Kid (God): Everybody has a best feature, Joan. I saw to that.
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God: Faith is believing when there's no rational reason to believe.
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Joan: (to Cute Guy (God)) Great, you have a locker now. What do you keep in there – wrath?
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Joan: You might be God, but you're a little clueless.
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Joan: (to God) You want me to ace French? Why don't you make the language easier? Or make it...English?
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Rich Woman (God): You're always faced with difficult decisions. I can't make your choices for you - I'm really committed to the free will thing.
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Joan: Was that you in the bathroom?
Mascot (God): The point is, I'm here now. My name is I am, not I was.
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Joan: Why are you acting so mysterious all of a sudden?
God: I've always been mysterious. Without it, there is no faith... and we love faith.
Joan Who's Faith?
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Joan: I thought we were going with monotheism
Twin-Girl God: I'm impressed you know what that is
Joan: Why are you torturing me, And don't say I'm torturing myself
Twin-Girl God: Sometimes its hard to believe what you see, so you have to trust the world behind your eyes
Joan: There's a world behind my eyes, great because this ones in enough trouble
Twin-Girl God: People manage to believe in me, even though they have no idea what I am, they trust me even in the silence
Joan: O.K. Can you take care of the rash and the barfing, save the haiku for another time
Joan: Very matrix
Twin-Girl God: Got to the doctor, you are sick
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Joan: I never liked any of you. (points to Goth-God) Especially you!
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Joan: You are not real.
Little Girl God: So people keep telling me.
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Joan: I can't hear you.
Cute Boy God: But you can see me.
Joan: I'm ignoring you.
Cute Boy God: I'm used to that.
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Cute Boy God: Have you read this?
Joan: You stole that!
Cute Boy God: Well, technically, everything's mine.
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Little Girl God: All carbon atoms are the same. As are all protons, electrons, and neutrons. It didn't have to be that way, but it makes the universe beautiful.
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Cute Boy God: Crazy is destructive. It tears down. I'm all about building up.
Joan: Then I suggest you take up carpentry.
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Joan: Why can't you understand that you are screwing up my life? I just want to be like everyone else!
Goth Kid God: I really have to give you the snowflake speech?
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Garbage Man God: This can be recycled. Do I have to make a new Earth every 7 days?
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Joan: So what I was growing...
Loner Loser kid God: Grew.
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Loner Loser Kid God: It's like, uh, everybody has something better to do. Until they're on a plane, and then they're all over me.
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Locksmith God: You were involved, Joan. That always makes a difference.
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Joan: Oh, I can't watch (Brian get beat up). It's too horrible.
Rocker Dude God: Multiply that by six billion and you'll know what I go through every day.
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Joan: Didn't you take history?
Rocker Dude God: I created history.
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Locksmith God: Mankind lives in a prison of its own making -- but you always call on me for the keys.
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Bad Stand-Up Comedian God: Here, what does this (dollar bill) say?
Joan: ‘In You We Trust'...
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Gay Male Secretary God: And stand up straight. I didn't create your slouch.
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Fortune Teller God: Technically, everyone has no future.
Joan: Oh god . . .
Fortune Teller God: That's me.
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Joan: Wait. You know my future. So why do I have to go discuss it with Price?
Gay Male Secretary God: That free will lecture doesn't land with you, does it?
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Joan: God shouldn't pinch cheeks. It never makes the world better.
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Joan: Can we focus?
Officious Hall Monitor God: I'm always focused.
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Officious Hall Monitor God: I multi-task. Well, if I didn't . . . well, you wouldn't want to know.
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Joan: God mocking humans? That's nice.
Female Custodian God: Belly flop. Eternally funny. Nothin' I can do about it.
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Joan: Would you care to be a little more specific?
Cute Boy God: For me, that is specific.
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Joan: You really are omnipresent, aren't you?
Cute Boy God: I get around.
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Joan: to Cute Guy God) Do girls always hit on you with that look? Oh, they do. Hitting on God. That's gross!
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Joan: Great. God is a pop-up ad. That's perfect.
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God: It's because you see each event as an end in itself. But they're all just small parts of something much greater. Something that never ends.
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Joan: I always knew God was an underachiever.
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Joan: You want to tell me why you're here.
Goth Kid God: It's a guidance session. I'm all about guidance.
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Goth Kid God: Design. I like it. That's why I put it everywhere.
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Johnny Broadway God: Nothing of value comes without a little struggle. Some of the most beautiful flowers in the world only grow after a forest fire. Literally out of the ashes, they blanket the ground with colour.
Joan: Yeah, but you could make that happen without the fire. People would like you more.
Johnny Broadway God: They'd just find something else to blame me for.
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Gay Male Secretary God: Singing, dancing, zombies, oh my!
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Joan: Even God can't bring back the word ‘nifty'.
Female Custodian God: Don't tempt me...
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Female Custodian God: Don't you just love the theater? People finding joy in creating whole new worlds. *chuckles* Couldn't keep that one to myself.
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Joan: You're not serious?
Gay Male Secretary God: I'm always serious. Which doesn't mean I'm not fun.
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Personable Woman God: I just thought I'd ask. Show I care . . . because I do.
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Joan: The other stalls are free. How about giving me a little peace in here?
Little Girl God: I'm all about giving you peace, Joan.
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Personable Woman God: They should really put benches at all the bus stops. Make the world a better place, one tush at a time. What do you think, Joan?
Joan: God says 'tush'?
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Joan: It doesn't make any sense.
Personable Woman God: It's a paradox. You're a hero. And you're not perfect. You were horrible to Dylan because you cared. Another paradox. If you accept that they both can exist simultaneously, then you can find peace in the contradictions, which is where you'll find me
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Joan: It doesn't make any sense.
Personable Woman God: It's a paradox. You're a hero. And you're not perfect. You were horrible to Dylan because you cared. Another paradox. If you accept that they both can exist simultaneously, then you can find peace in the contradictions, which is where you'll find me.
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Sunday, January 23, 2005

If

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!

By Rudyard Kipling